Share Your Story

Thank you for your interest in sharing you hookup/casual sex story!

How does it work? You share your story through this contact form, I get an email, and then I post everything on this site except your email address.

What counts as a hookup? Any sexual experience (however you define that) with someone that you were not in a romantically committed relationship with. Some examples include one-night stands, fuck buddies, friends-with-benefits, sex with an ex, booty calls, but there are many other ‘types’ of casual sex or hooking up.

Who can share a story? Anyone!

How many hookup stories can I share? As many as you want, but you’ll have to submit a separate form for each story. Only write about one specific experience per form.

How much detail should I provide? To provide some level of consistency across the stories, there is a detailed set of questions about your experience. I encourage you to incorporate in your answer as many of those as possible, because the more you share, the better sense others will have of your experience. But it’s totally up to you: Share as much or as little as you want and feel comfortable.

Please think about protecting your partners’ anonymity as well as your own!

Share your story!

THANK YOU for sharing your story!

By posting your story, you agree to the Terms of Use.

We’re currently posting stories with a 2-week delay. Thank you for your patience.

About DrZhana (1416 Posts)

Dr Zhana is the creator of The Casual Sex Project. She is also a NYC-based sex researcher, educator, and writer. She holds a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University, and studies casual sex, nonmonogamy, and sexual orientation. She teaches Human Sexuality and Research Methods at NYU, blogs for Psychology Today, and tweets obsessively about new sex research.



  1. Hi, I am not able to access the Share Your Story form, it is just showing up as coded text. I’ve tried it on two different devices and have also tried Auto detect encoding. Any ideas to help?


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